I feel worry about this subject because it alway's the man lacking the attention sex. what do I do as a wife when it's been a issue for a long time I ask why don't we have sex and his answer is i don't know. i been dealing with the non exciting sex for many year's. and we had our share of problem with him being unfaithful for many year's yet we have been trying to sever God, and he i know been trying.last year I found out he was still talking with woman on the pc. After I confronted him he has been more connected with church project's but i still have fear and sadness for i live a empty sex free life after 30 year's of the abuse and the lack of love i am about to give up. I still am very much in love with him and don't understand why he tell's me he love me and want to but just can't with me. Is it possible for a man not be able to because of pass afair's